Like how fucking dumb do you have to be to have so little instincts?
They've had their instincts brainwashed out of them. Girls especially, are told that 'judging' someone in any way, shape, or form is wrong. They have this repeated to them by teachers, media and friends their entire childhood to the point it is seen as a modern sin.
But kids who grow up without fear of anything...
Modern society, for middle class White women, is so safe as to be nearly a fairy tale. Think about what women are encouraged to wear out in public in modern Western societies. They can do that because White, Western men have become so disciplined and browbeaten that they are not a threat to the average woman. So these women, not knowing any better, assume all men are like the White boys they are used to being around. Until they find out they're not and then it's too late.
The fucked up part is that women turn out like the girl in OP because she blames herself for what happened. She blames herself because she's been brainwashed her entire life to think that there are no such things as bad people. So when something bad happens to her it can't be anyone's fault but her own. She now carries this misplaced guilt and has no way to deal with it, instinctually she knows she wasn't totally to blame but intellectually she can't blame anyone else. That manifests as self-destructive behavior that makes her both less attractive of a target and acts as a form of self-flagellation.
They've had their instincts brainwashed out of them. Girls especially, are told that 'judging' someone in any way, shape, or form is wrong. They have this repeated to them by teachers, media and friends their entire childhood to the point it is seen as a modern sin.
Modern society, for middle class White women, is so safe as to be nearly a fairy tale. Think about what women are encouraged to wear out in public in modern Western societies. They can do that because White, Western men have become so disciplined and browbeaten that they are not a threat to the average woman. So these women, not knowing any better, assume all men are like the White boys they are used to being around. Until they find out they're not and then it's too late.
The fucked up part is that women turn out like the girl in OP because she blames herself for what happened. She blames herself because she's been brainwashed her entire life to think that there are no such things as bad people. So when something bad happens to her it can't be anyone's fault but her own. She now carries this misplaced guilt and has no way to deal with it, instinctually she knows she wasn't totally to blame but intellectually she can't blame anyone else. That manifests as self-destructive behavior that makes her both less attractive of a target and acts as a form of self-flagellation.