Why Won’t Leo Date A Real Wahman?!
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Pair bonding isn't real, it's a tradcon cope based in complete pseudoscience.
Even without science, you can tell that someone who regularly goes into shallow, meaningless, short-term relationships isn't going to be able to develop long, meaningful ones. Any attempt to start one will end at the first hurdle because "I can just get a new one", "plenty fish in the sea", "if he can't handle me at my worst..." etc.
Might be a bit of chicken and egg situation. Does casual sex/dating lead to shallow, low-value women or are those women drawn to casual relationships/incapable of 'bonding'?
Evolutionary psychology argues that women are not capable of developing genuine attachment because loyalty would get them killed when a civilization falls.
They're always ready to jump ship and find someone else, just ask the Ukrainians.
True, but we're talking about the stress of normal relationships, not crisis situations. Marriage until death used to be the norm, so it's not like women can't have fidelity when reinforced by society, but recent cultural shifts have changed that.