It's true that when the left complains about things like "white society generally exists to benefit whites" my core disagreement with them isn't that I think that's wrong but rather they think that's bad and I think it's good.

This is like that sketch where the racist and wokie realize they have so much in common.

Sure. But putting aside the fact that "racist" is some bullshit Communist term for loving your own race over others and not actually about hating other races,

being against interracial marriage/dating/breeding is not a hateful sentiment.