They both pretended to like everything I liked, then they both inevitably cracked and I got to meet the real person years later, wasting a significant chunk of my (and their) finite time on this earth.
The first even had the gall to accuse me of controlling her and making her into someone she wasn't. Bitch, I did absolutely nothing. You did it all to yourself, you personality-void sponge!
That's how their mind works. They don't have enough grounding to have their own personality/reality, so they end up responding to yours. Like a dog becoming like their owner.
So rather than realize they were doing it themselves by being weak, its your fault for existing like you do because your very existence is a bad influence on their fluidity.
I've had two exes who pulled this shit on me.
They both pretended to like everything I liked, then they both inevitably cracked and I got to meet the real person years later, wasting a significant chunk of my (and their) finite time on this earth.
The first even had the gall to accuse me of controlling her and making her into someone she wasn't. Bitch, I did absolutely nothing. You did it all to yourself, you personality-void sponge!
That's how their mind works. They don't have enough grounding to have their own personality/reality, so they end up responding to yours. Like a dog becoming like their owner.
So rather than realize they were doing it themselves by being weak, its your fault for existing like you do because your very existence is a bad influence on their fluidity.
A guy once told me that every woman's initial personality when you first meet her is an imitation of her previous boyfriend.
I like that, I'll have to remember it.
Literally borderline personality disorder. I had one of my exes do the exact same thing.