That is so it. Tons of people my age (near 40) are still like this. If I were to watch them apparently their dreams are working their dead end job to enable them to continue their lives of unfettered sex and alcohol consumption. I'd say let them be, but in my experience they've been the ones most judgmental of me. Because I'm a single guy too, the only lifestyle I'm supposed to want is their party world. I've been told I need to "grow up and start acting like an adult" more than once by these people. All because I'd prefer to spend a Friday night tinkering in the garage, or tag along a supposedly "boring" beach/ski trip or something with friends who have kids, or spend time being gaming buddies with my kid cousin. Yet they are the ones always bitching about their unhappiness, stress, depression, etc. and I'm happy with my life.
That is so it. Tons of people my age (near 40) are still like this. If I were to watch them apparently their dreams are working their dead end job to enable them to continue their lives of unfettered sex and alcohol consumption. I'd say let them be, but in my experience they've been the ones most judgmental of me. Because I'm a single guy too, the only lifestyle I'm supposed to want is their party world. I've been told I need to "grow up and start acting like an adult" more than once by these people. All because I'd prefer to spend a Friday night tinkering in the garage, or tag along a supposedly "boring" beach/ski trip or something with friends who have kids, or spend time being gaming buddies with my kid cousin. Yet they are the ones always bitching about their unhappiness, stress, depression, etc. and I'm happy with my life.