For example, objections to trans ideology are rooted in genuine concerns, with "hatred" playing almost no role. And if the occasional person's disgust turns to hatred, that is not "morally abhorrent" but just an unimportant fact of life.

I was essentially neutral on trannies until they made their problems my problem. If I hate them, I hate them for forcing me to deal with them and their bullshit. At the end of the day, I just want to be left alone but the left won’t leave me alone, so I can’t leave them alone.