The gap between the rights and responsibilities of women versus men with respect to children is absolutely insane. Basically all birth control short of condoms only works for women, effectively giving women complete reproductive control over both themselves and men in long term relationships, abortions only exist for women, child support might as well only exist for men, and being unable to pay it lands you in prison unless you absolutely win the lottery and get a family court judge who is even willing to consider the possibility that men don't have limitless money and job opportunities. Women are acting like limits to abortions mean they're being treated like cattle, but the fact is they still have tremendously more rights and less responsibility than men ever have or ever will.
This. And it's simple to see with the whole abortion decision.
Woman is pregnant for 9 months. Gets to choose to tell the man, not tell the man, keep the baby, not keep the baby, etc. And if she unilaterally decides to keep the baby, dude is on the hook for ~2 decades of child support payments.
If you even suggest that the guy should have the ability to do a financial abortion, though - waive all parental rights and contact with the woman and kid in exchange for not being locked into child support payments - you'll have a bunch of harpies screaming in your face faster than if you said "free cake!"
I'd have more sympathy if these whores didn't baby trap dudes for child support money.
The gap between the rights and responsibilities of women versus men with respect to children is absolutely insane. Basically all birth control short of condoms only works for women, effectively giving women complete reproductive control over both themselves and men in long term relationships, abortions only exist for women, child support might as well only exist for men, and being unable to pay it lands you in prison unless you absolutely win the lottery and get a family court judge who is even willing to consider the possibility that men don't have limitless money and job opportunities. Women are acting like limits to abortions mean they're being treated like cattle, but the fact is they still have tremendously more rights and less responsibility than men ever have or ever will.
This. And it's simple to see with the whole abortion decision.
Woman is pregnant for 9 months. Gets to choose to tell the man, not tell the man, keep the baby, not keep the baby, etc. And if she unilaterally decides to keep the baby, dude is on the hook for ~2 decades of child support payments.
If you even suggest that the guy should have the ability to do a financial abortion, though - waive all parental rights and contact with the woman and kid in exchange for not being locked into child support payments - you'll have a bunch of harpies screaming in your face faster than if you said "free cake!"
Easy to avoid if you don't randomly fuck around with women.