securing your assets before you get married

Any competent lawyer will get you for playing this kind of game.

Having a prenup

Not worth the paper they are written on. She can claim she signed under duress or didn't understand and it's gone.

Not marrying a ho

The 1950s called, they want their dating advice back.

There's this thing called lying. You should read about it.

90% of the guys who get boned in a divorce did no preparation and are shocked when their lack of preparedness set themselves up for failure.

Victim blaming. And you wonder why I can't stand your side.