A lot the stuff they are talking about would be considered "rape culture" if it were male on female, especially this.

During university I had a heterosexual friend who I think wasn't really used to this and on one occasion we were sitting very close together on the sofa and he made a move on me out of nowhere. (there's no salacious ending to that story, I didn't reciprocate and it was as awkward for both of us as you might imagine!) He later told me that he's never had any gay feelings in his life but if he were to experiment then it would be with me.