Biological sexual attraction isn't something you can just cultivate away from, even with grooming.
You can fuck it all up with puberty blockers, hormone replacement, and bottom surgery. People on that stuff probably have scrambled sex drives and are definitely unattractive to everyone else.
They can fuck it up, but they can't really change it. You can do damage, but that's why people keep resorting to killing themselves.
Your underlying biological imperatives can't co-exist with grooming, conditioning, and medication; thus creating a literally lethal amount of cognitive dissonance.
You can fuck it all up with puberty blockers, hormone replacement, and bottom surgery. People on that stuff probably have scrambled sex drives and are definitely unattractive to everyone else.
They can fuck it up, but they can't really change it. You can do damage, but that's why people keep resorting to killing themselves.
Your underlying biological imperatives can't co-exist with grooming, conditioning, and medication; thus creating a literally lethal amount of cognitive dissonance.