TBH, my dad was like that big time. My mother said no to us having a dog. Do you think we had a dog? Yes we did.
You know what's weird though? He died when I was 11, then right after that our dog died as well. But my mother got completely converted to dog ownership. On dog 3 now (including the first one my dad got, so a good record with keeping em alive too).
eh, it's something that works both ways. I'm sure there are things my wife would say yes to that I'd say no to (it's just that generally men are bigger risk takers).
Especially in this case where it sounds like your dad knew your mom's "no" wasn't from experience but perception. That's totally fine and you have to know your spouse.
What I'm referring to is the child's perspective: looking for approval or a rubber stamp of approval.
TBH, my dad was like that big time. My mother said no to us having a dog. Do you think we had a dog? Yes we did.
You know what's weird though? He died when I was 11, then right after that our dog died as well. But my mother got completely converted to dog ownership. On dog 3 now (including the first one my dad got, so a good record with keeping em alive too).
eh, it's something that works both ways. I'm sure there are things my wife would say yes to that I'd say no to (it's just that generally men are bigger risk takers).
Especially in this case where it sounds like your dad knew your mom's "no" wasn't from experience but perception. That's totally fine and you have to know your spouse.
What I'm referring to is the child's perspective: looking for approval or a rubber stamp of approval.
But also -- who could hate dogs?