A friend of mine lives with a lesbian, she only dated one incredibly abusive butch girl for a long time - up to mid-late 20s. The girl has massive anxiety issues, she is unable to order food at a restaurant without having a panic attack, and she works in HR cause stereotypes are for a reason.
Nowt she has been living with my friend for 3-4 years, they are sleeping with each other, both are monogamous and there is talk about kids. In their defense she still labels herself a lesbian and he says he is in an open relationship although he has slept with no other women since she moved in with him.
I'm not one to judge but she is not a lesbian.
He is very much on the left on everything except immigration. He was the type that likes to sleep around but unlike other guys he would let women stay over if they wanted and for as long as they wanted. A lot of freaks and nut jobs have been at his place. Normally the girls would leave after some weeks or months do to him being an insensitive a-hole that would sleep with the next waitress that smiled at him, in his defense he was upfront about it.
The lesbian however just broke up from her abusive relationship and he wanted to sleep with a lesbian. He knew her from his previous job, she worked HR there and he would hit on anything with a skirt. So that is how it started, then it continued with her being an emotionally clingy and dependent person and I think for the first time he actually enjoyed having someone be depended on him.
I still make fun of him that his most successful relationship is with a lesbian. Despite our political differences we are good friends, he is the type of leftist that is not all up in your face about it and tries to be nice and I try to keep politics out of conversations.
A friend of mine lives with a lesbian, she only dated one incredibly abusive butch girl for a long time - up to mid-late 20s. The girl has massive anxiety issues, she is unable to order food at a restaurant without having a panic attack, and she works in HR cause stereotypes are for a reason. Nowt she has been living with my friend for 3-4 years, they are sleeping with each other, both are monogamous and there is talk about kids. In their defense she still labels herself a lesbian and he says he is in an open relationship although he has slept with no other women since she moved in with him. I'm not one to judge but she is not a lesbian.
He is very much on the left on everything except immigration. He was the type that likes to sleep around but unlike other guys he would let women stay over if they wanted and for as long as they wanted. A lot of freaks and nut jobs have been at his place. Normally the girls would leave after some weeks or months do to him being an insensitive a-hole that would sleep with the next waitress that smiled at him, in his defense he was upfront about it.
The lesbian however just broke up from her abusive relationship and he wanted to sleep with a lesbian. He knew her from his previous job, she worked HR there and he would hit on anything with a skirt. So that is how it started, then it continued with her being an emotionally clingy and dependent person and I think for the first time he actually enjoyed having someone be depended on him.
I still make fun of him that his most successful relationship is with a lesbian. Despite our political differences we are good friends, he is the type of leftist that is not all up in your face about it and tries to be nice and I try to keep politics out of conversations.
This really is the best advice. Let nature take its course. It usually straightens everything out.