Friendships end all the time. It doesn’t matter how close you think you are, one day something in the formula breaks and it’s over. It’s a loss that will need time to heal, but sometimes it’s inevitable.
There’s no such thing as a 12 year old lesbian. If you can’t speak openly about it, then they accept the idea that a 12 year old can be a lesbian. This couple are child abusers, end of conversation. Cut out the cancer now, or it’ll infest and destroy your life. Most likely it’ll slowly infect your wife, and it’ll destroy your relationship.
The sunk cost fallacy exists not only in economics, but also personal relationships. OP, don't let that cloud your judgment: you're speaking up because you know the situation is fucked.
The friendship needs to end, as rare as it is.
Friendships end all the time. It doesn’t matter how close you think you are, one day something in the formula breaks and it’s over. It’s a loss that will need time to heal, but sometimes it’s inevitable.
There’s no such thing as a 12 year old lesbian. If you can’t speak openly about it, then they accept the idea that a 12 year old can be a lesbian. This couple are child abusers, end of conversation. Cut out the cancer now, or it’ll infest and destroy your life. Most likely it’ll slowly infect your wife, and it’ll destroy your relationship.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
The sunk cost fallacy exists not only in economics, but also personal relationships. OP, don't let that cloud your judgment: you're speaking up because you know the situation is fucked.
I love the way you worded this.
Reminds me of the crabs in a bucket theory. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crab_mentality
Which I have watched occur over and over again. I always distance myself from crabs. OP should too.