You have been lucky, most guys I know have not been. Even my own mom, while not a bad mom has made me dislike my dad for most of my youth, it was only after he died that I realized how manipulative she has been and that my father only did the best he could and put up with her because he loved me and my brother.
Luckily I moved passed it now and we are in ok relations.
No one can fuck up a guys life more then a mother. The emotional manipulation that comes so natural to them can break you beyond repair.
I meant murdering them as a toddler, but that too.
I was blessed with a good mother, but that won't make me naive enough to believe a majority are.
You have been lucky, most guys I know have not been. Even my own mom, while not a bad mom has made me dislike my dad for most of my youth, it was only after he died that I realized how manipulative she has been and that my father only did the best he could and put up with her because he loved me and my brother.
Luckily I moved passed it now and we are in ok relations.