If you hate yourself, it's time to re-evaluate your life. Such as why the fuck are you a furry?
They typically are products of failed socialization. The normal process is for a person to correct their behaviors to enough of a degree to fit in, but a furry (also other classes of degenerate) will instead reject their peers. They do not understand the process of social give-and-take. Thanks to the communicative powers of the internet, these people can achieve their own support groups so all members can circumvent normal social support principles.
It is the furry community as a social support group that will discourage the normal re-evaluation of one's life. Other furries will not wish you well or congratulate personal growth, they may well attack you. This is because it challenges the foundation of the furry community - it is a place for the warped and maladapted, so any correction demands excommunication. Failing to demonize such a member gives an implicit signal to all members that it is not right to reject personal growth, which will trigger cognitive dissonance (and nobody likes feeling cognitive dissonance).
In a way, the furries that hate themselves are on the cusp of becoming normal again. On the other hand, self-loathing plus a refusal to change oneself creates a despicable person.
tl;dr: Furries generally cannot re-evaluate their lives and change themselves. It requires attributes that are already selected against for initial group inclusion.
They typically are products of failed socialization. The normal process is for a person to correct their behaviors to enough of a degree to fit in, but a furry (also other classes of degenerate) will instead reject their peers. They do not understand the process of social give-and-take. Thanks to the communicative powers of the internet, these people can achieve their own support groups so all members can circumvent normal social support principles.
It's the same dynamic with the mentally ill or "mentally ill". They all find each other on Tumblr and convince themselves that they're fine and it's everyone else who has the problem.
I am largely ignorant of Tumblr, but I do agree - I've seen this dynamic unfold in many places online. I hold a mixture of pity and contempt for those involved. Some of the poor fucks may just need a little help, but they'll get dragged down by the ones that revel in spiritual squalor.
It's the same for all these groups built around disability and victimhood. They don't want their problems solved. They just want to wallow in them so they can reap the rewards of never-ending affirmation and power gifted to them for being so "disadvantaged."
If we ever develop the technology to change people's sex for real, as in change them on a genetic-molecular level and give them all the working organs, hormones, and appearances, the trannies will be the first and loudest ones to decry it.
Yep. Even if some of the miserable ones are given a miracle to correct their woes, there's a good chance that they'll just find something else to be miserable about. This knowledge is not hidden from them, so it's a sort of self-preservation to stall it from coming to fruition - lucky for them that such science/magic is nowhere near available.
They typically are products of failed socialization. The normal process is for a person to correct their behaviors to enough of a degree to fit in, but a furry (also other classes of degenerate) will instead reject their peers. They do not understand the process of social give-and-take. Thanks to the communicative powers of the internet, these people can achieve their own support groups so all members can circumvent normal social support principles.
It is the furry community as a social support group that will discourage the normal re-evaluation of one's life. Other furries will not wish you well or congratulate personal growth, they may well attack you. This is because it challenges the foundation of the furry community - it is a place for the warped and maladapted, so any correction demands excommunication. Failing to demonize such a member gives an implicit signal to all members that it is not right to reject personal growth, which will trigger cognitive dissonance (and nobody likes feeling cognitive dissonance).
In a way, the furries that hate themselves are on the cusp of becoming normal again. On the other hand, self-loathing plus a refusal to change oneself creates a despicable person.
tl;dr: Furries generally cannot re-evaluate their lives and change themselves. It requires attributes that are already selected against for initial group inclusion.
It's the same dynamic with the mentally ill or "mentally ill". They all find each other on Tumblr and convince themselves that they're fine and it's everyone else who has the problem.
I am largely ignorant of Tumblr, but I do agree - I've seen this dynamic unfold in many places online. I hold a mixture of pity and contempt for those involved. Some of the poor fucks may just need a little help, but they'll get dragged down by the ones that revel in spiritual squalor.
It's the same for all these groups built around disability and victimhood. They don't want their problems solved. They just want to wallow in them so they can reap the rewards of never-ending affirmation and power gifted to them for being so "disadvantaged."
If we ever develop the technology to change people's sex for real, as in change them on a genetic-molecular level and give them all the working organs, hormones, and appearances, the trannies will be the first and loudest ones to decry it.
Yep. Even if some of the miserable ones are given a miracle to correct their woes, there's a good chance that they'll just find something else to be miserable about. This knowledge is not hidden from them, so it's a sort of self-preservation to stall it from coming to fruition - lucky for them that such science/magic is nowhere near available.