From the perspective of Kia2, what is worse:
Insulting people based on their ethnic identity or to deny that their identity even exists?
Like say you insulted all chinese people versus saying that there is no such thing as a chinese person.
What is more hostile towards Chinese people from this communitys perspective?
There is no imaginary scale.
And the compulsion to arbitrarily quantify things is a behavioral marker of high functioning autism, just FYI.
not sure OP deserves that much credit