My older brother is the reason that I got into "nerd culture" since I read his sci-fi books as a kid as well as his comic books before I started collecting my own. Also, before he got too old for it we watched G.I. Joe religiously (imagine that cartoon on today). He a wife and three kids now so he is out of the loop for a lot of geek stuff, so when I told him that Amazon was going to have a Lord of the Ring show we both got a good laugh because the first thing he said was "so how long before the articles bashing Tolkien or whining about lack of diversity start"
It is so funny because with all the reboots/sequels I swear it is like clockwork to see articles from supposed life long fans of something that now "realize" all the racism/sexism in the original show/movie. I remember the gushing critic articles for Ghostbusters 2016 and it has only become worse since. I'm currently on the last book of Wheel of Time series and I've already seen articles calling it sexist and complaining about abuse to women. That whole Geeker Gate thing was spot on.
Most of my friends are on the left, they do not like woke stuff in movies, they do not like the anti-white policies, they do not like the push for trans children.
They also believe Republicans are against gays, racists, evil etc.
They do not seem to notice a huge connection between the left and woke stuff/ identity politics and they do not care enough about it to vote with the side of pure evil.
But at least we have enough of a middle ground to remain good friends. I hide my politics at work but not in my private life.