telling him that you're dating with marriage in mind and that you eventually want a family. Men will run for the hills and never look back.

That's a good thing though. Why would you want to waste someone's time if they're not dating for marriage? Are you trying to manipulate someone who isn't looking for marriage into marrying you?

The exact same thing can just as easily be said about women. If they aren't interested in marriage and you bring it up, that'll be the end of the relationship. But if both parties are being honest, then that's exactly what both of them should want.