Female guardsmen are absolutely not a normal part of the setting. They didn't even have miniatures till last year. In imperial guard fleets the women are too busy having and raising babies to fight on the front line. This was a core part of the imperial guard lore as casualties are high for them and this was a major way in which they replenished their numbers. Females being just as numerous as men in the guard is a new woke retcon from games workshop.
Picked up foxhole. Top down online shooter which simulates a war from frontline combat to logistics to backline production. Really interesting concept. It's a really complicated game, so I've only been playing as a grunt on the frontline so far but I've been enjoying that.
There are many reviews on steam talking about the toxic community and how they're not helpful to new players but I've only had positive experiences so far. Although this might only be because I haven't explored the other systems and mechanics yet which I can imagine would attract a different type of player.