Abortion. Definitely. You might claim a fetus feels pain after 2 days on conception, but that is a religious belief.
Abortion is far less traumatic. Giving birth isn’t like going poop. A woman gets thousands in doctors bills and no paid time off from work. And people will ask you about a baby you know nothing about if you do adoption. We live in a culture that makes giving birth very difficult. And we think of the women getting abortions as the phychos when we nearly force them to get abortions. Prolife without being pro family isn’t pro life for real.
Or maybe the only kids showing up to take the tests were the children of smoking while pregnant “freedom” mom?
If you can’t kill someone for having dirty toenails, might as well move to a free county like Belarus.
Your mother was traumatized by a culture that told her she murdered someone. Abortion itself is far less difficult than giving birth.