I love how straight people can't ever express negative feelings about the condition of their kids, be it mental or physical disabilities (I repeat the condition, they can have negative feelings about the condition without not loving the kid) or else they are ableist, but gays somehow can "get" a kid and get picky about the "quality" of said kid like it's some race horse and we can't say it's fucked.
Ehhhh, I have heard rich gays do the exact same with surrogates and acting like they were buying some purebred puppy. It was pretty disgusting to hear people demand their child to be EXACTLY like they want, down to things like eye colour, because "those kids are so cute".
Sure, we all have things we find more or less cute and would prefer it that way, but to act like a bitch, like "I pay for this kid, so it better be done to my exact expectations or else" doesn't sit well with me.
I love how straight people can't ever express negative feelings about the condition of their kids, be it mental or physical disabilities (I repeat the condition, they can have negative feelings about the condition without not loving the kid) or else they are ableist, but gays somehow can "get" a kid and get picky about the "quality" of said kid like it's some race horse and we can't say it's fucked.
Only lesbians, gays will just get whatever they're given.
Just another facet of Female Privilege™
Ehhhh, I have heard rich gays do the exact same with surrogates and acting like they were buying some purebred puppy. It was pretty disgusting to hear people demand their child to be EXACTLY like they want, down to things like eye colour, because "those kids are so cute".
Sure, we all have things we find more or less cute and would prefer it that way, but to act like a bitch, like "I pay for this kid, so it better be done to my exact expectations or else" doesn't sit well with me.