Love, is my first answer. We were young, we fell hard and fast, not realising that we had different ideas. Despite our differences weve stuck together and despite her upbringing shes always been tolerant of my views. Once we had kids though her hormones went into overdrive and she almost went full trad wife, staying home and looking after our children became her top priority. Now with the recent lockdowns, isolation from her mothers constant feminist nagging and my subtle influence over the last 13 years shes starting to see things my way. Of all the things it was the Cuties controversy thats now tipped her over, now shes actually calling shit out on her own while I just sit there with a smirk on my face hahaha