They just shouldn't be leaders or influencers in conservative movements.

I agree with this somewhat. Leaders should be the best of us, should know what we know, and must prove themselves.

i do not trust such people (especially women) and you won't change my mind on it

I'm not asking you to blindly and naively accept everyone. I'm asking for you to forgive people who actually repent and accept truth.

There are obviously devious people, false converts, grifters, subversives, and liars who will always attempt to enter our spheres, homes, and nations, in an attempt to take them over and destroy them. Do not welcome or accept those people, but be sure you know how to spot them, and the differences between them and true converts.

With regards to women, they are easily manipulated, because they're less logical and more emotional than men. They are not meant to lead. We are to lead them. If we lead them, and they accept our ways, they aren't a false convert. They will always try to err, but that is the nature of women, and to a slightly lesser extent humans as a whole. If women could never be trusted of their convictions, they'd never be able to enter Heaven, because all of their prostrations and repentance would be meaningless.