Both the guys who killed the healthcare CEO and Shinzo Abe have women creaming after them . (Shinzo Abe's killer also has a bunch of fangirls in Japan)
Next time some tradcon claims that guys should give up their hobby to appease a woman's standards, i would like to tell them that if guys all did what women wanted then all guys will become serial killers.
It really depends on the church and how much they rely on single mommies looking for a chump to rob blind to keep butts in pews. But honestly it's just one manifestation of a bigger problem, which is tradcuck "right wingers" pushing marriage on men without pushing women to be marriageable. Churches are just one of the few places they still have a platform since feminists who don't bother with the LARP have pushed them out of all the other institutions.
I dunno man, every church I've ever been to has pretty high expectations of women's behaviour, just as it does for men. It's one of the few places left in modern society where you can hold women to some sort of standard and have your words carry some weight.
You're either very lucky or know how to select good churches. I don't deny that good ones exist. I just know that the ones I've tried either follow the woke religion or do the tradcuck thing where only men are held to any standards, and from what I've read in men's spaces I'm not the only one who's encountered this problem. I think a lot of it is just deciding to be a business instead of preaching the word of Christ. They're not going to bite the hand that feeds them (the single mothers in their congregation) and the tradcuck shtick is an attempt to appeal to men who are sick of being expected to worship the LGBTQPZ+.