Both the guys who killed the healthcare CEO and Shinzo Abe have women creaming after them . (Shinzo Abe's killer also has a bunch of fangirls in Japan)
Next time some tradcon claims that guys should give up their hobby to appease a woman's standards, i would like to tell them that if guys all did what women wanted then all guys will become serial killers.
You're either very lucky or know how to select good churches. I don't deny that good ones exist. I just know that the ones I've tried either follow the woke religion or do the tradcuck thing where only men are held to any standards, and from what I've read in men's spaces I'm not the only one who's encountered this problem. I think a lot of it is just deciding to be a business instead of preaching the word of Christ. They're not going to bite the hand that feeds them (the single mothers in their congregation) and the tradcuck shtick is an attempt to appeal to men who are sick of being expected to worship the LGBTQPZ+.