It's sometimes a little bit of both. There's often a fair bit of tunnel vision going on, just sort of goes hand in hand with such angst.
Parents can also sometimes be a little more heavy handed towards kids with regards to religion when they first learn that their kid is moving away from religion. Which is understandable, but also liable to spark some conflict and eventual resentment.
It's sometimes a little bit of both. There's often a fair bit of tunnel vision going on, just sort of goes hand in hand with such angst.
Parents can also sometimes be a little more heavy handed towards kids with regards to religion when they first learn that their kid is moving away from religion. Which is understandable, but also liable to spark some conflict and eventual resentment.