People who are surrounded by Male Feminists afflicted with Coom Brain are worried that it might endanger the women.

Their concerns are valid, for the wrong reasons, and their conclusions are all stupid. They don't understand how their own policies caused the environment they have.

Their "Progressive Values" are the problem because they consider porn, casual sex (read: devaluing sex), and fetishes (read: dehumanizing), to be "sex positive"; rather than fundamentally damaging to both women and men, and don't understand that it is the cause of Coom Brain, which is where bizarre sexual expectations are cumming coming from.

Additionally pathologizing masculinity, assertiveness, and dominance in men; and pathologizing submissiveness, inspiration, and repair in women; they've managed to drive up resentment, and guarantee that those darker, resentment-fueled desires in both men and women can only be appropriately shared in porn and fetish communities; further promoting the sexual degeneracy and effecting both sexes' views of the other.

Your stupidity is what is causing the underlying resentment, misogyny, misandry, and chauvinism that you are worried about. Also, your male feminists are rapists because you've institutionalized sexual, manipulation, deception, and coercion as the only legitimate forms of male sexuality. You want a male feminist to be weak and then lie to you about his sexual desires (so you can virtue signal to your ideology); rather than have him actually be strong & confident masculine partner (which you biologically desire, but it challenges the dialectical narrative of your peer group).