I still remember when BG3 came out and there was a gay person pointing out how it was actually quite unsettling how aggressively gay some of the characters were and that they acted like sex pests. Instead of maybe toning the behaviour down just a teensy bit predictably the response by the fanbois was to accuse the person of being a fake gay and act like they didn't have a valid point.
When you look at the disease rates (courtesy of the CDC).... https://archive.is/b1kAx
And you look at the depression rates... https://archive.is/7QGxL
And you look at the infidelity rates... https://hornetapp.com/stories/anal-sex-infidelity-surveys/
And how often they burn through partners... https://www.guttmacher.org/sites/default/files/article_files/4315111.pdf
The empirical data shows that they are sex pests.
All good reasons to remain a virgin till death.
Not getting associated with those is another good reason.