Plenty of people I know dislike spiders very much. If I'm just having lunch with them, they're not going to, unprompted, say "you know what I think about all day every day? Spiders." as a random conversation starter. They don't even want to THINK about them, so they'll actively drive conversations AWAY from adjacent topics like bugs or wildlife or camping.
“You’re arachnophobic? You must secretly want to fuck spiders.”
It's about being in a void of other topics.
Plenty of people I know dislike spiders very much. If I'm just having lunch with them, they're not going to, unprompted, say "you know what I think about all day every day? Spiders." as a random conversation starter. They don't even want to THINK about them, so they'll actively drive conversations AWAY from adjacent topics like bugs or wildlife or camping.