I would say a couple of things about this.

First of all, this is a very female expression style. I'm certain you'll find soyboy malefeminists writing the same way, but they're copying women.

So, it's a relatively common female style. It's also been my experience, and this is from IRL as well, that women who talk this way and bring "queer" or "mommy/daddy" or "bdsm" into every topic, are as fucking basic as they come. It's like they get a high from feeling naughty and transgressive.

It's the fucking definition of arrested development.

I looked up Alyssa Mercante, senior editor at Kotaku as of November 2022. In her introductory article, she talkes about her "queer creds," her masters thesis in contemporary queer lit, etc. What does she list for her own personal interests? Three rescue cats. Favorite TV shows are "Real Housewives franchise, Love is Blind, Geordie Shore, and Bar Rescue." "Puck sluts for the [New York Rangers]"

She is just the embodiment of "basic bitch who wants to be special."

You can almost hear her biological clock ticking down...