Do not judge lest ye be judged? Frankly, I would like to be judged if I were so desperate to be in a relationship that I went as far as to endorse the very same culture of whoredom and desolation which the bible explicitly and repeatedly condemns as a bad outcome - I think that sounds like a pretty good metric to be judged by generally speaking. Why reward it? Why enable it? It's nothing short of cuckoldry on a spiritual level to lose the discernment that you are also "called upon as a Christian" to have.
It's definitely men trying to navigate the system. Absolutely no man wants to be with a whore if holding all else constant he was just choosing between a whore and a non-whore.
The big problem though comes back to physical appearance and sexuality. In modernity, if a woman is somewhat sexually appealing and good looking, it's almost all but a guarantee she's a whore. If she's sexy, hot and not a whore she's pretty much a 10/10 and out of most men's league.
So the choice for a lot of men is ugly and not sexy regular woman or hot and sexy reformed slut/whore. A lot of guys would actually rather roll the dice with the reformed slut/whore because even if she divorce rapes you because you can't turn a whore into a housewife, at least he'll have good sex (the hope anyway) for the time he spends with her. To a lot of men the average not so attractive, not so sexy women who aren't whores and are available are entirely unappealing.
Do not judge lest ye be judged? Frankly, I would like to be judged if I were so desperate to be in a relationship that I went as far as to endorse the very same culture of whoredom and desolation which the bible explicitly and repeatedly condemns as a bad outcome - I think that sounds like a pretty good metric to be judged by generally speaking. Why reward it? Why enable it? It's nothing short of cuckoldry on a spiritual level to lose the discernment that you are also "called upon as a Christian" to have.
Have some dignity.
It's definitely men trying to navigate the system. Absolutely no man wants to be with a whore if holding all else constant he was just choosing between a whore and a non-whore.
The big problem though comes back to physical appearance and sexuality. In modernity, if a woman is somewhat sexually appealing and good looking, it's almost all but a guarantee she's a whore. If she's sexy, hot and not a whore she's pretty much a 10/10 and out of most men's league.
So the choice for a lot of men is ugly and not sexy regular woman or hot and sexy reformed slut/whore. A lot of guys would actually rather roll the dice with the reformed slut/whore because even if she divorce rapes you because you can't turn a whore into a housewife, at least he'll have good sex (the hope anyway) for the time he spends with her. To a lot of men the average not so attractive, not so sexy women who aren't whores and are available are entirely unappealing.