https://rumble.com/v4ng5sr-njf-on-marriage.html
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summary:
- you can't take risks
- you can't trade your comfort for resources toward a greater goal
- women have absolute legal power
- women have no obligations or duties in how they behave
- most of the masculinity exhibited by married men is performative and trivial
- every mechanism to control a wife's behavior is seen as "abuse"
Even knowing all of this, and generally agreeing with it, I still think the costs and sacrifices are worth it as long as you go in for the purposes of having children. Unless you are an incel genius like Isaac Newton or Nikolai Tesla then producing those children and doing your best to impart your values on to them, in spite of everything arrayed against you, is your "greater purpose".
10 or more years ago when I saw the writings on the wall, I voluntarily gave up trying to associate with women despite I also was very thirsty as fuck. It has nothing to do with being gay or asexual, in my opinion, putting that label on you is like protecting yourself from some accusations. Even back then, all the girls around my age had some sort of red flags and nasty attitude problems and I'm in fucking Australia, girls there are generally very promiscuous. Even when I had enough money in savings to afford a prostitute, I still found it risky for one night flinging. At that time I couldn't really voice that opinion anywhere because you are going to be called incel everywhere and be dismissed or worse. And imagine my surprise things have become way way worse now normies and even normie women are affected, and like a stupid motherfucking cucks the western society is, now they are running around like headless chicken trying to fix that problem. And they are STILL afraid to address the elephant in the room. I came to see western women in bad light in general, even all these based right-wing women seem to have hidden shameful past and some agenda they want to push.
This is why the Manosphere is a godsent. For me the issue was the fucked up divorce laws, and I was naive enough to think feminists actually gave a shit about equality back then. Imagine my shock when they jumped down my throat for bringing up the topic. They would like nothing more than to gaslight men into thinking we're alone in holding these opinions, and the Manosphere threw a wrench into that operation.
Yeah I've become quite the woman hater recently, and contrary to the narrative that feminists want to push about guys like me I didn't start out that way. One thing I will note is that there are plenty of "right wing" men who are just as bad. There's a reason that "tradcuck" is one of the most common insults that the Manosphere uses.
That's why even back then I knew MRA movement was useless. There was no way western society can understand the point of MRA existing until the situation really got bad like we are now. I find all these tradcucks you mentioned I blame them as well for where we are now. They had a bit of influences to put their foot down and say no to LGBT movement taking things further by mile, instead they chose to pick on the low hanging fruits like gamers, MGTOW and make stern faces at them. In other words fuck their moral high ground and high horse they rode on.