It's a tragically schizophrenic article. I think this paragraph can sum it up succinctly:
The relationship struck Sarah’s friends as odd. At one point, Sarah said, “I just want to be with my kids and cook for my man.” “I was like, Who says that?” says a close friend. “I mean, I’ve known her for 30 years. She’s a powerful, decisive, strong woman. We grew up in this very feminist community. That’s not a thing either of us would ever say.”
It's a tragically schizophrenic article. I think this paragraph can sum it up succinctly:
Because the feminism leaves a woman's body the instant she thinks she has a shot at a fit, charismatic, bearded, famous, wealthy gigachad.