Women hate responsibility.

Even the ones with high-adrenaline, stressful, high-confidence jobs tend to want the husband to be in charge when they get home, even if it's something as meager as deciding what dinner is, specifically because that kind of responsibility is exhausting for them.

Rape is twofold - most fantasy rape is a high-value man 'loosing control'(IE, they're so hot they drive men wild) and proceeding to 'take what they want'(IE, the woman is no longer responsible).

...granted, I say 'most', but some women don't even go that far in terms of 'high-value'. They just want to be owned, and the idea of being a near-literal pet is what gets their engine going.

This wouldn't be so much of an issue, except that we have this little thing called 'voting rights' we've given to near fucking everyone, and western society as a whole pays extreme amount of deference to women. 'Believe all women' really is the default setting for most normies, and this extends up to most levels of local government enforcement(police, courts, ect).

And so, we end up here.