Second pane is an extreme exaggeration of what men want: a loving and supporting partner they can trust. This is obviously misogyny because God forbid a woman bring ANYTHING to the table besides baggage these days.
I think one of the reasons they resort to this level of gaslighting and manipulation is precisely because it's always women with the most obvious red flags and psychological issues that post this shit online. I get spammy about this kind of thing but I really feel like I have to go out of my way to warn even other women about this so they do not fall into the trap of believing any of the crap they're spewing.
I would regularly get into fights with feminists on reddit back in the day who were trying to 'fix' MRAs using this method and pretending that all men needed to do was express their feelings more and magically their lives would get better. It's extremely manipulative behaviour even by their standards and something to watch out for because there are non-feminist type women who buy into this bullshit.
It's extremely pathetic on their part too how when they complain about their version of misogyny they never actually ask why it happens the same when it comes to racism and stuff they get uppity about. They never look at the other side and simply make shit up to the point it's clearly very damaging to peoples' ability to comprehend things or establish relationships.
I do think some men want to go into a bit of a "I'm so fucked up, hold me" state that would be unbecoming if done in public. Which, this seems to be kinda going for.
I don't think they should be, I just think modern men are so fundamentally broken that they might actually need that on the rare occasion.
Second pane is an extreme exaggeration of what men want: a loving and supporting partner they can trust. This is obviously misogyny because God forbid a woman bring ANYTHING to the table besides baggage these days.
I think one of the reasons they resort to this level of gaslighting and manipulation is precisely because it's always women with the most obvious red flags and psychological issues that post this shit online. I get spammy about this kind of thing but I really feel like I have to go out of my way to warn even other women about this so they do not fall into the trap of believing any of the crap they're spewing.
I would regularly get into fights with feminists on reddit back in the day who were trying to 'fix' MRAs using this method and pretending that all men needed to do was express their feelings more and magically their lives would get better. It's extremely manipulative behaviour even by their standards and something to watch out for because there are non-feminist type women who buy into this bullshit.
It's extremely pathetic on their part too how when they complain about their version of misogyny they never actually ask why it happens the same when it comes to racism and stuff they get uppity about. They never look at the other side and simply make shit up to the point it's clearly very damaging to peoples' ability to comprehend things or establish relationships.
It's worse because it looks like a subtle distortion of that.
Is it a distortion, or is it that they don't know what love and support is... ?
I do think some men want to go into a bit of a "I'm so fucked up, hold me" state that would be unbecoming if done in public. Which, this seems to be kinda going for.
I don't think they should be, I just think modern men are so fundamentally broken that they might actually need that on the rare occasion.