I'm just highlighting a lot of the popular stories of women have them being dominated and turned into a subservient slaves to a strong man, I think they know what the problem is in society, at least subconsciously.

You are giving them way too much credit of self awareness and introspection. Every single one of them think in those stories both they and he are special, and that's why its always okay. Its "normally not" but this is an exception.

Its the same reason why the loudest race card pulling activists always have a white boyfriend.