He can be pretty brutal about men as well as women.

My concern with the self-help gurus, coaches and commentators is that the second they offer advice, they suddenly deny genetics and reality, go full "blank slate" and assume that hard work, the gym and touching grass can solve everything. There was a recent video from Chris Williamson “Genetics Are More Important Than How Hard You Work” that really offended people because they can't grasp the concept that a significant percentage about yourself is outside of your control due to genes, not just height, eye colour or half your personality but also including the predication for someone to work hard, whether you will become a CEO and inclination to not procrastinate. Probably because evolutionary and biological reality doesn't make money.