The thing is I've never had a girlfriend before so I do get it, at the same time though even I wouldn't advocate giving up entirely because that's not healthy. I just recommend having an extremely strong filter on who you hang out with because there's nothing worse social wise than wasting your time on somebody you thought was a friend only to find out they obviously didn't give a shit. One of the things I'm working on big time is social mobility as part of what I want to do in 2024 so I can go out and meet some interesting people instead of being trapped on TERF island.
The thing is I've never had a girlfriend before so I do get it, at the same time though even I wouldn't advocate giving up entirely because that's not healthy. I just recommend having an extremely strong filter on who you hang out with because there's nothing worse social wise than wasting your time on somebody you thought was a friend only to find out they obviously didn't give a shit. One of the things I'm working on big time is social mobility as part of what I want to do in 2024 so I can go out and meet some interesting people instead of being trapped on TERF island.