I don't play many PC games these days because of how woke a lot of the shit is. I got burned on Cyberpunk, so now I pretty much play FS2020 and that's it these days. The last game I played through was System Shock remake, which I found to be decent enough.
BG3 won game of the year from Worth a Buy, but I hear it has a lot of gay sex?
No real disagreement there, Act 3 was a mess and imo there's a few significant rewrites needed for it to be coherent.
And no I didn't free Orpheus I enslaved his silly ass and lied to Laezel about it.
As for how ilithid are made, yes that's either a retcon or a mistranslation and these days it could have been either.