Original post: https://www.aaronrenn.com/p/stop-shaming-men
Archive post: https://archive.ph/JzmQy
It’s one of the most well known facts in social science that women initiate the vast majority of divorces – around 70% or so depending on the source you look at. It’s a fact I have never heard an evangelical pastor mention. In fact, as one feminist scholar found in her academic research, in evangelical sermons ‘women are framed primarily as receivers of divorce rather than initiators.’ And, while there have been improvements, divorce court and child custody practices still favor women. . . . It’s also worth asking what Blake – and by extension the rest of the evangelical leadership class – are doing to reduce these risks, help men manage them, or to create an environment in which men have a better chance of marital success. The answer is basically nothing. . . . They could tell men, “Get married and we’ve got your back.” But they don’t. Instead, should some man actually get married and any troubles arise, they will almost certainly blame him for it.”
Evangelicals, is there nothing they can't fuck up?
To add to this, leftists are also demanding that men self sacrifice. Main difference is what areas they tend to target for sacrifice, but it still adds up to the same effect: Use up most of the male population so that those at the top can reap the benefits, while claiming that it's all for the "good of society".
And both do everything they can to discourage and shame a man's passion for life and to break his spirit.
Not that this is an especially new insight around here. That similar and familiar tone is precisely what first launched Gamersgate, MGTOW, and similar developments in the first place, where men (and some women) started to take notice to all of the manipulative bullshit going on at the top.