I never once said that a man is obligated to marry. I absolutely agree with you on what you said. What I was pointing out was the REASON. Intention matters, especially in christianity.
If you want a wife and family, there's nothing wrong with that; the bible says there's honor in fulfilling the roles of father and husband. If you have little to no interest, or your priority is God, the bible says that's okay too.
But if you DO want to have a family, and you DO want a wife, and you're just suppressing that out of fear whilst still burning with lust, it's hard for me to see how that's very godly.
I never once said that a man is obligated to marry. I absolutely agree with you on what you said. What I was pointing out was the REASON. Intention matters, especially in christianity.
If you want a wife and family, there's nothing wrong with that; the bible says there's honor in fulfilling the roles of father and husband. If you have little to no interest, or your priority is God, the bible says that's okay too.
But if you DO want to have a family, and you DO want a wife, and you're just suppressing that out of fear whilst still burning with lust, it's hard for me to see how that's very godly.