They pretend they don't understand the feeling because they are aware that that feeling reveals something revolting about how they actually evaluate men.
It also reveals a way men can improve. Women hate the idea of terrible or weaker men improving their status, because then they can't be certain if he has weak genes or not (because that's all it always is, instinctual).
The things they say they want are usually bars so high that no man who doesn't have them will ever really achieve them, so its not telling men to improve. Its just raw filter to get men to fuck off.
It also reveals a way men can improve. Women hate the idea of terrible or weaker men improving their status, because then they can't be certain if he has weak genes or not (because that's all it always is, instinctual).
The things they say they want are usually bars so high that no man who doesn't have them will ever really achieve them, so its not telling men to improve. Its just raw filter to get men to fuck off.