but they don't know that, because they never learned that they had to do that.

It would be nice if most of them spent their energy learning instead of calling for that awareness to be rejected or criminalized. If they would acknowledge they're sheltered and protected and ignorant of men's experiences, instead of lecturing us how we can't possibly understand a woman's woes, but they understand everything there is to understand about us, of course.

Ignorance is forgivable if you pair it with self-awareness and a desire to learn.