Yesterday, after work, I went to the store to take just the flu shot, told the person injecting me to give me an extra bandage, which was branded with the logo of the store, put that bandage on in the bathroom, and went home.
Mom asked me where I went, I told her I took the shots, showed her the bandages, she asked if I had my card, I said I did but she never asked for it, and then I went on with my day.
I’m still waiting to see if the shoe drops and she asks to see my card within the next few days, but if that happens, I’ve taken all of you guys’ advice into account, but so far I’m good.
I did it this way mainly because my appointment time, but Mom wasn’t mad or anything that I went without her, last night was just a bit hectic, but hopefully it’s over for now. I’m still looking for places to move, as I definitely don’t wanna deal with this again, but damn, I didn’t know that lower income housing had waiting lists.
Seriously. Move out as your highest priority. Your Mum sounds nuts, Stefan Molyneux would be a good podcast to listen too as the crazy narcissist Mum is his "specialty"
This is easy for me to say, living in a house. But you're a young Man that's not pathetically weak. You don't actually need a house. If you have a phone and laptop and a way to turn your time into money. You can live out of your car, shower at a local gym/YMCA.
You can live in a Yurt even
Being young is the best time to do stupid things like this because you have so little to lose and no responsibilities.
At it's most basic, you need shelter, and a place to shower/clean your clothes. If you can get these to continue working, your living expenses drop dramatically. It's not great, or fun, or sustainable long term. But you can save an awful lot of money and be out of home.