As I said, weighing costs and benefits and taking the most efficient course of action isn't sitting on your ass or giving up. It's accepting reality and optimizing your experience in life based on it.

I'll ask again: what is your proposed solution? Your answer so far seems to be simply "remake society to enforce traditional values on women". Believing that the Western world is going to just wake up and decide that they're doing it wrong is pure fantasy. And unless you've got the largest army the world has ever seen you're not going to be able to force it on them either.