Men Use Porn, therefore they Are not seeking relationships
again, I don't know how many times I have to tell you, I never said this. porn usage satisfies our primal urge to mate, which is only one of the things that drives people to pursue relationships. A need for companionship as well as a desire to start and maintain a family cannot be satisfied by porn. people are still pursuing relationships, and my argument is that that pursuit is now coming from a place of seeking a real relationship, and not just a soft place to put your dick. the kinds of people who would seek a relationship just for sexual gratification, but do not want companionship or a family, are now being satisfied through other means.
Strong Relationships are unaffected by porn
This is my personal observation being third party to several relationships. quantifying relationships is difficult, I can only report on what I observe.
People who would not be happy in a relationship no longer seek them
to elaborate, relationships are not for everyone. most people in this world do desire companionship and a family, but a sizable chunk do not and that is okay. for these people, sexual lust can drive them to pursue a relationship because their body needs to relieve tension. in my experience, relationships formed through sexual lust exclusively are doomed to either fail or be miserable. the proliferation of porn has allowed people to relieve sexual tension and think clearly, thus avoiding making a lifelong commitment that they did not want to make in the first place.
again, I don't know how many times I have to tell you, I never said this. porn usage satisfies our primal urge to mate, which is only one of the things that drives people to pursue relationships. A need for companionship as well as a desire to start and maintain a family cannot be satisfied by porn. people are still pursuing relationships, and my argument is that that pursuit is now coming from a place of seeking a real relationship, and not just a soft place to put your dick. the kinds of people who would seek a relationship just for sexual gratification, but do not want companionship or a family, are now being satisfied through other means.
This is my personal observation being third party to several relationships. quantifying relationships is difficult, I can only report on what I observe.
to elaborate, relationships are not for everyone. most people in this world do desire companionship and a family, but a sizable chunk do not and that is okay. for these people, sexual lust can drive them to pursue a relationship because their body needs to relieve tension. in my experience, relationships formed through sexual lust exclusively are doomed to either fail or be miserable. the proliferation of porn has allowed people to relieve sexual tension and think clearly, thus avoiding making a lifelong commitment that they did not want to make in the first place.