Agreed.

At least she acknowledges the indecency of the scenario, regardless of the gender differences; kids at that age are still highly malleable (male or female) and you're right that it should be the elder's responsibility to set and maintain boundaries because at that point of development they're dealing with highly hormonal (and irrational) individuals who need guidance, not grooming.

Unfortunately she's still a product of Hollywood's broken system, so it's not like there's any good that's going to come from any of this regardless.