I don't disagree with anything here. But, I think it was just as big an issue throughout history that "hot guy came through town, banged a bunch of wives" that made those men "losers" just as they would now. Heck, many famous pieces of writing and characters were just that as a concept.

The only difference now is that they don't need to wait for Fabio to maybe come through town, there are 15 Fabios standing in front of her (on the screen).