Look, I'm all about self improvement but when below average women want the top 0.5% of men, it's time for society to start viewing the situation from the opposite lens. It's not men that need to improve themselves any more, it's women who need to set realistic expectations.

We as a society seemed to recognize that men had unrealistic standards for women and we told men to stop having them. Women don't need to be feminine, women don't need to a healthy weight, women don't need to want to have sex all the time and it's fine for women to wear pants, sweatshirts, get face tattoos and piercings everywhere.

Okay, great. Now it's time to tell women to lower their expectations. Men don't need to be 6' tall 5'4" guys are fine. Men don't need to earn $100k/yr. $20k/yr is fine. Men don't need need to be fit, fat men and skinny men are fine. Men don't need to be romantic or caring about a woman's emotions, men can be blunt, harsh and inconsiderate. Men don't need to not want sex all the time. It's okay for men to want sex all the time.

Women need to be taught to lower their standards. Women have unrealistic standards.