No, they're not in any way comparable, and that false equivalence is bullshit.

I don't hate the guy. I just think he made poor choices, here, from the crotch-grabbing onwards.

Regardless of their "personal relationship", there's a difference between potentially acceptable private behaviour, and doing something like that, on stage, in front of millions of people.

You're just taking it to an extreme, while attempting to strawman me at the same time.